.....you can't pick your family.
Now granted, I am pretty lucky, I have a good dad and a pretty cool step mom...my mom is cool too and my sister, well ok, we're SISTERS so we used to fight about EVERYTHING but now as adults (wow did I just say I was an adult) well yes as ADULTS we do definately get along better.
But I married a man with a brother
and a brother in law I have
and have had off and on for now 12 years.
Then FACEBOOK starts and he searches us out again...."bygones be bygones", blah blah blah and cautiously we let the ball roll again
BIG MISTAKE
what a DRAMA queen this man is
he's a total tool.
He gets OFF on making others angry and upset - I've never met ONE friend of his, which makes me believe he has none, which makes perfect sense considering he's tried to whore in on my friends since he met them....not tha tit matters, we have all figured out how JEALOUS he is and how desperate he wants to have a friend like I have friends
now the worse part.....as some know, my marriage hasn't been all sunshine and roses lately and joey and I have gone thru some tough shit..and as much as we have been trying to work things thru it seems his brother is out to sabatage me..trying on many angles to WANTINGLY hurt me...for nothing more than amusement...because he cant STAND anytong having more than him..or being more than him...
so it ends for me
im done with the bullshit and the games
he walks around with this whole "I dont play games" attitude, yet can't date anyone for more than a few weeks before they "break up" but it's ALWAYS the girls fault
yeah ok whatever
The only thing I feel now for this person, it's pity, which is sad, cause I wanted to love him as my brother in law, but he didn't want me as a sister in law
I think he fears women..more than one person in the circle have actually said he HATES them.....because any woman that could posess or show more strength of character than him, well that would make him VERY afraid..
a few tips for said "brother in law"
ditch the fancy car, no one is impressed
get your act together
get a therapist
work it out
MOVE forward....
make the journey a good one...cause if you go thru life miserable, seriously what's the point?
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Wonderfully stated! I am so happy to hear someone else say the same words I've put forth to others.
get your act together
get a therapist
work it out
MOVE forward....
make the journey a good one...cause if you go thru life miserable, seriously what's the point?
The problem so often is to swallow the pride and make the change. Will someone rub it in his face like he has for so long? Also, he may be comfortable in the identity he has created for himself, so a change seems like he was lying for so long.
It is such a tough road that I have nothing but admiration for anyone who takes it on.
Hm, Eebie, you're so insightful.
Change, although the most constant variable in life, is STILL the most difficult thing for folks to go through. My hubby HATES change. I thrive on it. I love it, I see change as stepping stones, if you will, that lead me on to bigger and better things.
Yes, there is a certain comfort with sticking to what you know, but moving on, growing up, and changing, that's what life's all about. Why stagnate and try to sabotage your loved ones, all in the name of fear. 'Cause that's what it boils down to: Fear.
I'm sorry to hear about you and Joey having issues hun. It's part of it though, right? We're ironing out our own little rough patch right now, and it seems we're on the right track, but it's still tough.
Have a nice cool day today Andie.
*Big HUGGGGGGGGGGGS*
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